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Hi all, I am probably just suffering from new hamster parent syndrome and just need to be patient but I am a tad bit worried about my new hamster. This isn't my first hamster, but my first in about 13 years and first in adulthood with "proper" care. We brought home our gorgeous Syrian, Oakley, on Saturday afternoon and he has followed what seems to be a typical new hamster pattern of curiosity followed by isolation but I'm still a little nervous about a few things. We chose him (or, I like to think, he chose us) as he seemed happy, confident and curious, was right at the glass of his cage in P@H and lifting his body towards us, happy to be cupped and stroked by the sales assistant, and even tried to come out of the cup.
When we brought him home, he seemed to have this same confident, curious nature and was straight out of his carrier and explored all of his enclosure pretty much immediately, foraging his sprays, excitedly discovering new substrates for the first time and seemingly loving them, especially the coco peat and sand which he spent a good 15 mins digging in and kicking about (cutest videos ever!). He didn't seem jumpy, skittish or nervous at all. He also starting making his burrow(s!?) very quickly, and we could tell he was going to be a burrower even from the store as he had created one even in the shallow bedding and he made a mini one in his carrier on the way back home too. However, he now really, really loves his burrow(s!?)
and we haven’t seen a huge amount of him since that first day. I know it's still very early days so we haven't even established a routine of knowing when exactly he comes out yet, but he seems to pop out occasionally throughout the day, mostly to pouch almost all of his food for his hoard and nibble a few bits out in the open for a few minutes.
Unlike the first day, he seems to stick to the left hand corner of his enclosure only, around his multi-chamber hide and burrow, and I haven't seen him venture to the right side anymore. This is also where his wheel is, which he hasn't touched at all - even on his first exploration day, he explored around the wheel and sat nearby to gnaw on a big treat I placed next to it but he hasn't actually used it at all. I know for certain because not only am I being a typical protective parent and keeping a very close eye (even during the night, yes...), but I also put some treats on it (even a piece of carrot!) and they haven't moved at all). I can only think that he maybe doesn't know what it is yet as 1) he seems very young still and 2) they use flying saucers as opposed to upright wheels in P@H and even then I of course wouldn't know how much he used that if at all. I've thought about moving it to the middle of his enclosure, swapping with the coco peat dish, but I'm not sure if moving things around so soon is a good idea, especially as the dish is near his burrow. What are your thoughts? I just find it so, so strange that he is not using a wheel and just doesn't seem very active other than a little mini explore when coming to get food.
Then I also get overworked thinking about whether he is happy, active enough and (perhaps prematurely!) worried about taming and that if I don't start soon-ish, he will never bond with us and become a "ghost" hamster. I have been speaking to him, giving body-scented shreds of tissue, doing the tiniest bit of spot cleaning (e.g. he keeps pushed a whole bunch of bedding into his sand bath when he's moving in and out of his burrow, so I sieved through that) and he even took a treat from my hand in the morning yesterday, but then rejected attempt two in the evening ahaha but let me stroke him while he was eating... unsure if I should continue with that or leave him be?
I know there are quite a few forum posts on this, which has been really useful to reassure me on the "settling in" front and realising that it typically takes more so 2 weeks verses the 2-3 days I assumed so I am grateful for that, and in a way it's helped settle my worries a bit to know that ultimately, everything probably is and will be fine and that I just need to be patient.
But I think on the wheel front I'm still worried as this does seem to deviate from the norm. And I'm also a bit concerned about his hoard and where he is peeing and pooping as I can't see any of that in the enclosure. When sieving through his sand bath n the first night, I found a small clump in the sand so hoped he would continue use that as his toilet (that would've been a dream!) but I can only assume now he is doing everything in his burrows which I can't see at all as they are under his multi-chamber hide. I haven't tempered with this at all. Should I be worried about his urine and fresh food going off? Again, bad idea to lift to try and have a look?
I'm so sorry for this super long post but hopefully you guys can offer some insight
A few pics below for reference!
The lil guy in question:



Oakley's enclosure (101x50x50cm):


When we brought him home, he seemed to have this same confident, curious nature and was straight out of his carrier and explored all of his enclosure pretty much immediately, foraging his sprays, excitedly discovering new substrates for the first time and seemingly loving them, especially the coco peat and sand which he spent a good 15 mins digging in and kicking about (cutest videos ever!). He didn't seem jumpy, skittish or nervous at all. He also starting making his burrow(s!?) very quickly, and we could tell he was going to be a burrower even from the store as he had created one even in the shallow bedding and he made a mini one in his carrier on the way back home too. However, he now really, really loves his burrow(s!?)

Unlike the first day, he seems to stick to the left hand corner of his enclosure only, around his multi-chamber hide and burrow, and I haven't seen him venture to the right side anymore. This is also where his wheel is, which he hasn't touched at all - even on his first exploration day, he explored around the wheel and sat nearby to gnaw on a big treat I placed next to it but he hasn't actually used it at all. I know for certain because not only am I being a typical protective parent and keeping a very close eye (even during the night, yes...), but I also put some treats on it (even a piece of carrot!) and they haven't moved at all). I can only think that he maybe doesn't know what it is yet as 1) he seems very young still and 2) they use flying saucers as opposed to upright wheels in P@H and even then I of course wouldn't know how much he used that if at all. I've thought about moving it to the middle of his enclosure, swapping with the coco peat dish, but I'm not sure if moving things around so soon is a good idea, especially as the dish is near his burrow. What are your thoughts? I just find it so, so strange that he is not using a wheel and just doesn't seem very active other than a little mini explore when coming to get food.
Then I also get overworked thinking about whether he is happy, active enough and (perhaps prematurely!) worried about taming and that if I don't start soon-ish, he will never bond with us and become a "ghost" hamster. I have been speaking to him, giving body-scented shreds of tissue, doing the tiniest bit of spot cleaning (e.g. he keeps pushed a whole bunch of bedding into his sand bath when he's moving in and out of his burrow, so I sieved through that) and he even took a treat from my hand in the morning yesterday, but then rejected attempt two in the evening ahaha but let me stroke him while he was eating... unsure if I should continue with that or leave him be?
I know there are quite a few forum posts on this, which has been really useful to reassure me on the "settling in" front and realising that it typically takes more so 2 weeks verses the 2-3 days I assumed so I am grateful for that, and in a way it's helped settle my worries a bit to know that ultimately, everything probably is and will be fine and that I just need to be patient.
But I think on the wheel front I'm still worried as this does seem to deviate from the norm. And I'm also a bit concerned about his hoard and where he is peeing and pooping as I can't see any of that in the enclosure. When sieving through his sand bath n the first night, I found a small clump in the sand so hoped he would continue use that as his toilet (that would've been a dream!) but I can only assume now he is doing everything in his burrows which I can't see at all as they are under his multi-chamber hide. I haven't tempered with this at all. Should I be worried about his urine and fresh food going off? Again, bad idea to lift to try and have a look?
I'm so sorry for this super long post but hopefully you guys can offer some insight

The lil guy in question:



Oakley's enclosure (101x50x50cm):

