
Well, we are living seperate lives. I don't wait up at night any more hoping to see him. Kage won't come out while I'm there - I've tried enough times to realise that now. He's making his own life now. I go upstairs by midnight each night, and leave him to it. He obviously prefers it that way, and I don't want him staying underground when he wants to come up, just because I'm in the way. That's not fair on him.
I did go back downstairs one night a few minutes after I gone up. I'd forgotten something - and the little...treasure - notice I used my word carefully

- was up! Proof enough he wants me out of the way!
Sometimes around my bedtime I'll hear him shuffling, and I imagine that's his way of saying "Go to bed. I want my night time."
I come back down stairs during the night when I wake as I always to, 1) to check the room temperature and 2) in the hope of seeing him. Very often I do, but not always, but usually it's a fleeting look. When he spots me he's off into his favourite hideout.
He popped his head out from there one time I was watching to eat some porridge

I'd left in a bowl on his doorstep. Another time I tried tempting him out with a piece of cucumber

, but that didn't work. I'll keep trying though.
It's quite often I will come down and see him standing in his digging box with his front feet on the edge. His box is at the front of the second extension, the nearest place in his Kingdom to the living room door at the opposite end of the room. I don't know how long he does that for at any time. I wonder if he's heard something - me coming downstairs - and stands looking, or is that my imagination again? Whatever it is, he doesn't hang around once he's seen me.
So I've got myself a ghost hamster. I've seen that's the way with many domestic hamsters. Huh, we only get to hear of the little cute ones that love fuss from their humans. Ghost hamsters it seems turn their owners into ghost guardians.
I'm busy these days making the platform I'll put in front of his Kingdom for his playpen to stand on. It's taking time, but I want to get it right It's said hamsters behave differently in "out of cage time." I won't hold my breath, but I do live in hope that we might get that little bit closer.
We really are two peas in a pod - living at opposite ends


. This is Kage's life and I will respect that. I've always said I won't force him into doing what is unnatural for him, but of course I will always love him

and care for him, and give him the best I can, and hope it's good enough. I want Kage to enjoy his life, and would I be making the platform for the playpen if I didn't, giving him more space and more enrichments to occupy his time? I'm doing it for Kage and, well just a little bit for me, maybe

So there you have it, an update of "the odd couple" in our household


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