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Charlie was our first hamster. Well, first in a very long time for me. But he was our first family pet. He came from a small pet shop. We knew nothing much about pet shops or supplies then. He came home with me in a taxi in an awful rotastak base unit and ran in the wheel the whole way back! We had quite a learning curve, but he always seemed to forgive mistakes and was the most snuggly loving hamster. He really was my baby. He was quite feral and it took us two months to tame him in the bath and just when you think it isn't going to happen - it happened. Suddenly he was hand tame. Very very hand tame! I could put him in my dressing gown pocket and he'd be so laid back. He'd go to sleep on my knee under a blanket - and he adored having his ears stroked. Poor thing had two cage changes. The first one was totally unsuitable. The second one was fine but he soon wanted more space. He ended up living most of his life in the 100cm Barney cage - which was perfect - because it was large enough to make a nice big retirement bungalow when he got older and couldn't climb. He could still zip about on the flat fast so liked his single level home with lots of floor space.

Charlie was a grumpy old man sometimes when he was in his cage. Out of the cage he was starry eyed and cuddly. In the cage he didn't like anything being moved even a few millimetres - and he would let you know. He could give really black looks and if he was in a huff about something, he'd turn his back on you - and sometimes stick his bum out at you. He never escaped exactly but did get stuck behind the fridge the first time we let him free roam. Not stuck exactly, he just went behind it and wouldn't come out again. Which meant having to dismantle one end of the kitchen worktop to safely get him out from behind the fridge, rather than try and move the fridge and risk squashing him. Just as we'd got the worktop dismantled and a cupboard removed and I could reach my hand behind the fridge to get him, he decided to saunter out the other side and come out into the room again.

Charlie was huge! I wasn't even sure he was a hamster he was so big. At that time, not knowing that Syrian hamsters came in all different sizes. He was gorgeously huge - a great big cuddly furry bundle. His fur was incredibly soft. In fact I've never known a hamster with such soft fur. He also had quite big ears and looked quite quirky when they were up.

The first time we went on holiday we took him to a pet-sitter in his cage. When we went to leave the pet sitter I went to say goodbye to Charlie in his cage. He turned his back on me. I wondered if he thought we'd given him away. I worried about him the whole time and had regular text messages with the pet sitter who said he was doing fine - until the night before we came back when he apparently went a bit crazy and started bar chewing. 10 days is a long time for a hamster - it must have started to feel permanent. I still don't know what made him go like that the night before we got back. But another hamster had died in the same room that night and I wonder if it scared him and upset him.

When we got him home he was not quite the same hamster. He was a bit manic. Instead of being pleased to be home he was just manic - running round in circles in his cage, bar chewing and wanting to be out all the time. This was quite upsetting and it seemed the bond had been lost as well. We sat worrying about him every night. Eventually I set up a playpen round his cage and left the cage door open so he could come in and out when he wanted. That helped a bit but he was still doing manic circuits in his cage. After a week of this we found that if we left the room and turned the lights off, he stopped bar chewing. And only started again if you came in the room. So we started to go to bed very early and turn the lights off. He would still bar chew when we were in the room though. It got quite exhausting. And also upsetting seeing him like that.

Then one day I thought - the only thing that might stop this is a full cage clean. Something I wouldn't normally do but it might kind of distract him out of the manic circuits and bar chewing. Which is what I did. It occurred to me maybe he could still smell the scent of other hamsters on his cage. I cleaned everything in his cage, changed all the substrate and washed the base and bars in white vinegar. Rinsed it off well but it still had a very faint vinegary smell - not enough to bother him. It worked. He suddenly calmed down and looked more normal. A little bit surprised but also interested - sniffed the bars and looked curious. Enjoyed exploring his cleaned cage set up. And all was back to normal again. He became our cuddly little boy again. It took some time for the bond to come back. I later heard from the pet sitter that one of her female hamsters had been out free roaming and climbed up his cage and she thought maybe they had fallen in love. That might have explained it too. Whether it was love or being driven insane by the smell of a female hamster on heat I don't know.

We actually avoided having holidays after that! The next time we went away was just two nights. He was nearly two then and in fine form. As it was just two nights, he was fine being left in the house with extra food and water. But when we got back he looked absolutely terrible. Gaunt and frail. I think he pined. I thought - can't leave him again. He came round of course once we were back but he looked like death warmed up at first.

He carried on into old age still perky and hamstery. When he got to about 2 years and 2 months he suddenly found he couldn't get into his sputnik - his back legs just didn't have the oomph. Which is when I turned his Barney cage into a retirement bungalow and he loved that. He still zoomed around on the flat and on the floor and showed no real signs of ageing otherwise apart from hair thinning a bit behind the ears. Then he lost weight a bit. And I noticed he couldn't pick up a nut. Sure enough his teeth had got too long. So he had a trip to the vets and his teeth trimmed. He was not amused. He gave black looks for about two weeks and shunned me. He was also quite a sensitive hamster - perhaps that's why he was affectionate and cuddly as well. He was very very stressed after the vet visit and hid away for about a week or two and didn't trust me any more. Talk about guilt. And the black looks as well. But he came round again. And soon perked up when he started getting baby food as an extra as well. The vet thought he had tooth ache in his back teeth or an arthritic jaw. He loved his softened food and baby food.

We moved house when he was about that age. Not ideal with an older hamster but it had to happen. It all went smoothly. He was the last thing out of the house in his pet carrier and the first thing I did was set up his cage - once we arrived at the house. He adapted to the change of environment very quickly and enjoyed free roaming. He zoomed about on the carpet despite slightly waddling with his back legs by then. He definitely had stiff back legs. He just kept on going. And somehow I never imagined he wouldn't be around any more. None of us did. He was part of the family. You just keep giving them a healthy life and not thinking that it won't be enough to make them live forever.
 
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Shortly after we moved we had a week's holiday. Charlie was an old hamster. He'd already gone bonkers at the pet sitters and nearly pined away when we left him two days the previous time. So we rented a holiday let less than two hours away and took him with us. I really wasn't sure if it was the best idea but knew that leaving him wasn't an option. He'd have just died. We particularly didn't go far on holiday for that reason. It worked really well. I took a slightly smaller holiday cage with us and set that up at the other end with his own substrate and toys. And he seeemed perfectly happy - because we were still there. He came out and free roamed round the holiday let every evening and seemed to really enjoy his holiday with us. He wasn't too keen on the two hour journey there and back in the car (maybe thought he was going to the vets again). I had him on my knee in the pet carrier with a blanket over the top. He didn't go to sleep like he normally did in the pet carrier. He stayed awake so I kept talking to him. But he was fine.

Charlie was looking quite wrinkly and old by Christmas that year. He pottered about happily. He still ran in his wheel for about 10 seconds a day! The wheel had been lowered so the entrance was at substrate level so he couldn't trip and could get in and out easily. He'd come out of his house and run to his wheel as always, excitedly. Hop in, run for 10 seconds and hop out again. This was his geriatric exercise routine.

He used his wheel right up to two weeks before he died. That two weeks was tough. He ended up having to be helped on his way. I had a bad experience with a vet who showed no compassion and never used them again.

Charlie is in our garden and had his own flowerbed with a bird table and a little rainbow bridge sign with his name on. We were all down in the dumps but I was completely struck down with it. I couldn't get past it. In the end I had support from the Blue Cross bereavement service who were fantastic.

I am sure we all know what it's like when there is an empty cage. Once that was gone it was fractionally easier but I found myself walking in that direction early evening out of habit.

I was quite depressed actually for a couple of months. If it hadn't been for the Blue Cross I think that would have gone on longer.

There was a bit of a sad atmosphere in the house for ages. I went out and looked at another hamster in the local pet shop a couple of weeks later. A sweet little female. But I just couldn't get another hamster - it was too painful. And too soon.

By 4 to 6 weeks I desperately wanted another hamster and was looking on Gumtree and other sites but every one I enquired about had already gone. Even during this I felt too stressed to enjoy it really. We were given a hamster about four months after Charlie died and when we went to pick up this little baby hamster and we brought him home with us in the car - we were suddenly all happy again. It wasn't till that day that I realised how sad we had all been for so long. The baby hamster (Newt) was a completely different personality - very active and maverick and made us laugh a lot. And laughter is the best medicine. I couldn't have given another hamster the Barney cage any earlier than that. It had been Charlie's cage. I couldn't even re-use Charlie's toys or wheel. These days I am not quite like that any more. I wash the toys and put them away then get them out again and now it's nice that our hamsters have some of Charlie's old toys. Not many left but there's a little green pod house that came with a Hamster Heaven shelf that all of them have enjoyed (it fits in the pet carrier).

I then decided - one hamster isn't enough - you need two - I never wanted to be left without a hamster to look after if one died, after that experience. It's partly selfish. It gives you some comfort having another hamster to look after if one dies and to be able to continue the same hamstery routine. So not long after we got Newt I adopted a robo from an unexpected litter.

Charlie's flower bed has changed over the years but still looks nice at different times of the year.

So here is Charlie

He loved that donut bed

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As an old man

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Reading this made my eyes well up. Charlie sounded like such an amazing hamster who was so dearly loved. It goes to show how much personality and emotions hamsters have. It would be nice if people who just see them as a children's toy could read this.
 
Wonderful beyond words to read about Charlie again. Loved him from long distance and followed his life.
Because of him I realised it wasn’t daft to have a hamster at my age.
Simply adorable. I know he has a great life with mine beyond the bridge.
As I typed those words the rain here stopped and I looked up and saw a rainbow- I kid you not…
Hello Charlie and all the gang.
 
Charlie changed your life. Just by reading his story i could feel the love you had for him and he had for you.
 
Reading this made my eyes well up. Charlie sounded like such an amazing hamster who was so dearly loved. It goes to show how much personality and emotions hamsters have. It would be nice if people who just see them as a children's toy could read this.
Thank you x It got to me writing it as well.
 
Wonderful beyond words to read about Charlie again. Loved him from long distance and followed his life.
Because of him I realised it wasn’t daft to have a hamster at my age.
Simply adorable. I know he has a great life with mine beyond the bridge.
As I typed those words the rain here stopped and I looked up and saw a rainbow- I kid you not…
Hello Charlie and all the gang.
Thank you x He very much enriched all our lives at a particular time. I am sure many of us feel huge gratitude to these little creatures after they go - for teaching us so much.
 
Charlie changed your life. Just by reading his story i could feel the love you had for him and he had for you.
It also affected my bank balance lol! I was always being told off for the amount you do for that hamster! And I have to say there were some jealous feelings arose at times as well!

He absolutely brought joy and we were so lucky with him. I never imagined you could fall in love with a little hamster. (Or rather a big hamster). but it was the communication that did it. Watch and listen.

It was the day I moved him to his first upgrade, like a parcel - and saw the reaction and felt overwhelmed with emotion realising he was not a parcel = he was a creature with feelings who was totally dependent on me to get it right. And I set about learning everything I could, watching, observing and working out what worked and what didn't. I learned most of what I know about hamsters from Charlie. With him being a sensitive type. The most groundbreaking thing was when I gave him a larger house (to double up as a shelf and because he ignored the small one) which I think was quite unusual back then. And he moved his toilet corner inside it. So I moved the potty in there as well. And most hamsters will do this if the house is larger enough.

It was only later I discovered the German forums and houses and they were way ahead with their multiroom houses and corner toilets. It does work.

Our first Robo taught me a lot more about communication - indications of the head or going over to something and looking at you - to show you when something is a problem or not right for them. Charlie did that a few times as well but our first Robo was very communicative in that way. And that's when you realise how intelligent they are. They have to be really to know who to trust and who not to trust. I think they are no different to dogs in that respect. They can have an immense bond and loyalty, understand your own emotions at times. The main difference is they are prey animals so have those instincts as well.
 
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